New Years Resolutions. Why are these always so scary? Perhaps it's because I vow to attempt change and change scares me. This year however my resolutions are fairly simple.
1. Streamline. I want to take out the fluff in my life and focus on what's important. This applies to several aspects but I would like to focus on my time and my home. I have so much "stuff" do I really need it all? The horder in me says yes and the anti-clutter lady screams no. It's an ongoing battle but with a move on the horizon, I need to let go. I also find my time cluttered with things that really don't matter. I need to focus on the important things and the rest will fall into place.
2. Gossip less. I'm not saying I won't gossip but I want to try and be better and focus on the positive. Too often in life all we see is the bad. This year I want to be more up beat, more glass-half-full. Talking negatively about people brings nothing but sadness and frustration. I was to focus on the good.
3. Be super Mom. This one is hard because right now, our home is over coming a month of sickness so Ethnie has been plugged into Elmo for a month straight. It's really hard for both of us returning to our usual routine of play and activities. I don't care what people say, playing with you kids is a lot of work. Obviously enjoyable and eternally rewarding but a lot of work. I want to make this a focus to give my children quality one on one attention without checking Facebook on my phone or folding laundry while we build towers. Yes there will be lots of that too but I feel I need to devote more time to just my kids.
4. Be super wife. So often I find that I've had a full day of cleaning, sorting, laundry, taking care of children and working on our callings that when Jakob comes home I forget that he needs me too. I have the most understanding husband in the world and I need to show my appreciation more. I need to focus more attention on us. I have found that so often I put the kids first and that is wonderful but once in a while I need to put us first. Date nights are on!
5. Enjoy. I always find myself saying, "Oh it'll be better tomorrow." I need to learn to enjoy the here and now. To enjoy the moments where Ethnie comes asking to read and snuggle even though there are a pile of dishes to be done. To enjoy snuggling Duke at 4:00 in the morning. To laugh more, to play more, to be silly more, to make more messes. To simply ENJOY. Life will always be busy, it will always be crazy but my kids will never be the same today as they were yesterday. Time goes so fast and I don't want to waste any more of it.
There you have it. My resolutions. Bring it on!