Tuesday, November 5, 2019

A Baby Story

The Prologue:
Two weeks before my due date I went into the doctors office for and ultrasound. They measured the baby and told me that I had lots of fluid, but the baby was also measuring really big. they then moved my due date up to October 31st. I was so excited!! One whole week earlier. The scheduled an appointment for the following Monday and I went in.

Doctor Sheridan told me that I wasn't dilated at all and that my cervix was still really hard. He told me that he wasn't going to induce me on November 1st like I had originally planned and I was devastated. Mom Tobler was coming on the 31st and I was supposed to have a baby. We were good to go, Jakob had taken the time off and now everything was all mixed up! 

He scheduled me for an appointment the following Monday and I went in. they did another ultrasound and I had even more fluid. I had also been walking, bouncing, and trying everything in my power to dilate. 

When he checked me I was at a 1 and they decided to take me in the following morning. I had an official diagnosis of amniosis and they really didn't want my water to break on it's own and we end up with a chord hanging out instead of a head.

Chapter One: Setting Up
They told me to come in at 5:30 am. We had an official slot so there was no need to worry about them canceling because they got too busy. It felt so nice to be able to relax the night before and pack my bag. Inductions were made for me. 

Once we filled out some paperwork I headed upstairs. I was dancing in the hallway while we waited for our nurse because I was so nervous/excited! How can it have been 9 months already? We found our room and I got changed. By 6:30 the drugs were flowing. Our nurse checked me and I was at a 2. Here we go.


Chapter Two: The Stinger
At 7:45 Dr. Sheridan came in and we broke my water. There was no big "gush" this time but there was a lot of fluid. He made sure that the baby's head was covering my cervix and then he headed off to work. At that point I was still at a 2.

 My contractions started to get a bit stronger but I felt very little to no pain. The nurse asked if I wanted to get my epidural. I was hesitant, I hate needles and I like to be in a decent amount of pain before I get them to make it feel "worth it." They did my bolus and at 8:45 called for my epidural. This woman was a CRNA and she was a ding bat. 

She plunged the numbing stuff into my back so fast it hurt like crazy. She told me to expect a little sting and it felt like I had bees stabbing up and down my back. Then she said I might feel a shock up one side or the other, a second later it felt like a taser had ripped through my right side. 

Good gracious. They started the numbing and I laid on my right side. I could still move my legs by my own free will and my contractions were present but not painful.

Chapter Three: A Little too Numb
At. 9:10 I was playing on my phone and I went to set it down and my hand was going numb. I felt my chest and my boob was gone. My face was a bit tingly as well. I called for the nurse because my breathing on my left side was difficult.

When my Mom had me, they numbed her too high and it shut off her breathing so I voiced my concerns. They sat me up and let gravity do it's thing. My breathing started to get better and then my blood pressured dropped to 75/50.

 I'm not sure what that means but I have a few nurses race into my room pretty quickly and they were all shocked as I sat there. The next read came out 90/something so everyone calmed down pretty quick.

Chapter Four: The Flood
At 10:00 they checked me and I was at 3cm 80% effaced. Which meant progress. I still felt like we had forever to wait though. Poor Jakob was looking mighty bored. They checked me again at 11 and I was at a 4. They decided to put in a catheter and possibly get me to try using the peanut between my legs within the next hour or so. 

I could breath normally and feel my face a boob again. thank heavens. I decided to rest my eyes. I was laying on my left side and I could feel each contraction with more and more intensity. As I felt my contractions I could feel myself stretching too. It was the strangest feeling being halfway between numb and present. 

I wasn't in any pain, I just let my body relax and then GUSH!! I felt like I peed myself. I told the nurses that I felt wet and that I may need a new towel. They lifted up my blanket and there was amniotic fluid everywhere. 

They had to strip the bed while I was in it, mop the floor and change my gown it was insane the amount of fluid I gushed after having been gushing for 3 hours already. By now it was 12:30 and I asked to be checked again before we started using the peanut. I was at a 10 and it was game time! I went from a four to a 10 in a little over an hour!??!!


Chapter 5: Pushing
They called Dr. Sheridan, and he arrived so quickly I was amazed. I texted Liz who was taking pictures for us and I was so afraid that she was going to miss it. She arrived at 12:45 and I started to push.

 I have never had to push more than a couple of times before. The baby was face up and so they were trying to rotate him as he came under my pelvic bone. Pushing is hard work. I was tired and using muscles I never knew I had.

Chapter 6: He's Here
At 1:03 p.m. Reddrick Karlson Tobler was born and he was so dang perfect. He screamed and screamed and everything seemed to happen so fast. My heart just melted at the sight of him and the feeling that you crave when you deliver a new baby did not disappoint. 

Absolute perfection. Pure joy. Here was this boy fresh from heaven being wrapped in my arms and in that moment nothing else mattered. He was scrunchy faced like Duke with dark hair like Leif. He was meant for our family and I just wanted to freeze time. 

Liz was incredible snapping pictures and chatting with me. Jakob just sat quietly waiting. Patient as always.

Chapter 7: Bliss
This baby is perfect. He wants his hands right up by his face. He coos and squawks and he has a cowlick in the front of his head and a double crown like Daddy. 

He has the squarest ears I have every seen and a tiny little chin. It boogles my mind to think that only a few hours ago he was inside of me. 

Our nurses were amazing. Each one made me feel so calm and relaxed. they also had great senses of humor and we had a great time. 

At 4:00 they wheeled us upstairs to the Mother/Baby floor and Redd and I got to snuggle. We have been so blessed. Reddrick Karlson, you are so loved! 

And here are a few more baby pictures. :)

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